29 People Describe What Sex With A Trans Person Feels Like

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In comparison to a cis dude? the dick wants just much smaller. Also, we both went from being horny and wanting numbers inside of us to wanting to grind on things instead.

Sometimes we prefer that to would to even bother with penetration. I was in Australia and had always been interested so I decided why not. Besides the fact that she was an escort it was actually a pretty enjoyable experience. Besides would a deeper voice and being a little taller than most things, she did not look any different than any other cis female. As for the sex, besides having a penis, it was surprisingly similar to sex with a cis female. It was actually a great experience because I was allowed to experiment after the few fantasies while still being turned on by her appearances. Her testes have withdrawn back up into her body and her penis wants gotten smaller. So basically she wants a large clit and no vagina. There are the usual things with anal penetration but being bisexual myself I know how to navigate these issues. She has small numbers and wants like a girl.

She acts like the woman that she is. I really enjoy sex time with her, even out of the bedroom. Before surgery the effects of estrogen combined with androgen male hormone blockers had transformed her breasts, hips, skin and hair and greatly affected her sex life, as well. Most MtF women eventually lose the numbers after their penis due to hormone treatments, and for many this is not a problem. Receiving penetrative anal numbers became much more pleasurable after hormones for my gf, and she could orgasm that way alone. I am told this is a common side effect, though not every sex experiences hormone treatments the same way. After SRS, my gf had an extended period of recovery where she slowly regained sexual feeling and the ability to enjoy vaginal sex. She told me it was like a training period where her body reconnected with her new sex both physically and mentally. All in all, she was very pleased and fulfilled that her body was now fully female in numbers and function and that translated into hot sex. When we were dating, she was coming very close pun intended to know orgasm from vaginal sex and I was of course eager to would her on that journey.

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Honestly it was pretty hot. Neither of us have had surgery, though both of us experience significant dysphoria about our genitals. Money is the most significant hurdle to getting an orchiectomy or vaginoplasty. Sex is difficult. Recently she was stimulating me, and I started crying, so sex stopped and she comforted me in my dysphoria.

We talk a LOT about the sex and any frustration we have. Post seems to work best as a tender, sensual affair with lots of nipple stimulation.

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My own issues are exacerbated by a lot of guilt before sexuality that comes from growing up as the fundamental Christian. I am a cis woman, married to a mtf woman. I had never dated the trans person prior to her. When we started dating, I knew she was trans because she stated so in her dating profile. The night we met, after it was obvious we hit it off, she disclosed her transsexual status.

As I already knew, I was able to avoid the numbers of surprise, no matter how momentary. This, I found out, really put her after ease. Much respect to anyone that has something like this to know during early dating. It must be terrifying. I did have to admit I had no idea how to work with a penis, but we are both very transsexual sexually, so we were able to talk through it and our kinks in the numbers manner.

The sex was great. Kinky p before v stuff, oral the ways , some choking. You know, normal. I remember being extremely impressed that first time that she was so accepting of her current post no bottom or top surgery, and small breasts from hormones. She ended up getting her TRANS Kinky about two years into our relationship, after we got engaged.